Rude ASMR Roleplays

Mean or bitchy or rude ASMR roleplays emerged overnight and I’ve been pretty torn on the trend.

When I’ve watched them (and trust me, I’ve watched a few) I never really find them too relaxing. Either I’m too amused to the point of laughter or I’m taken aback and don’t really know what to think.  I keep trying to think of a good comparison but I haven’t had such luck. It’s strange – because I associate ASMR with feelings of being nurtured, comfort, softness. So when an ASMRtist starts acting rude in a roleplay I always think, “This is ASMR?!”

I made an unintentional “Bitchy” roleplay video that you can watch here. I only put the word “bitchy” in the title because I guess I came off as a rude best friend in the beginning of the video. Since its upload and since changing the title, people have now been telling me that I’m not being rude enough! #fail

Because, as most people who watch ASMR videos have come to realize, ASMR is not all just whispering or speaking softly. One’s demeanor, one’s atmosphere, one’s tone of voice and one’s presentation are all vital components of ASMR.

My Thoughts

When I personally go to watch an ASMR video I want to feel pampered, I want to feel loved (as cheesy as that sounds) and comfortable.  For ASMR purposes, in my opinion, someone being rude and throwing the F-bomb around is not going to make me feel pampered, loved or comfortable.

Disagree with me all you want – PLEASE tell me how you feel in the comments but this is how I feel. I usually watch those types of videos solely for entertainment purposes but if I wanna fall asleep in 5 minutes “bitchy” or “mean” ASMR videos are ones I tend to steer clear from.

The first one I watched was Katherine Clark’s “Jealous friend makeover” video. To date, it’s one of my favorite videos because that girl is just so good at ASMR, but upon watching it for the first time, I was taken aback and then amused. I’ve watched it so many times that I know exactly when she’s going to make those snide remarks that I either mute it during those parts or skip over it. One that I thought was incredibly entertaining however, is KaySMR’s Bitchy Friend Does Your Makeup video. She slayed it!

But overall… I dunno, they’re just funny to me. Plain and simple. Will I watch them for entertainment? Heck yeah, I love watching people get creative. Will I watch them for tingles or to relax/fall asleep? Nope.

But hey, that’s just me. Now I wanna hear what you think!

Categories: Blog

Lily Whispers ASMR

Hey there! I'm a YouTube content creator who makes ASMR videos to help you relax and fall asleep~


Steve Roberts · October 2, 2016 at 7:21 am

Hey Lily,

I think you’re just too sweet to be mean! You are always so positive and happy, so sarcasm doesn’t seem to fit. It may be because you’ve never shown that side of you, but you can’t stay mean! By two minutes in, you were back to the caring girl that wants to help everyone. Please stay that way and don’t let the world jade you. Your happiness is part of your creative side, spreading to others in ways that musicians and writers elicit emotions through their work.

ASMR reminds me of high school or college when a girl would read a report and her cadence, tone, or just pronunciation of words would almost instantly cause a relaxing/sleepy feeling.

I know you’ve read a few times on some occasions (on YouTube, I know you READ in real life! : ), but I think you could read some of your personal essays, poems, stories. You say you love to write and I know it’s hard to share your writings, but if you have the courage to put something out there (and I can tell you do), it will blossom!

Your videos, when you are just you,(like the last Japanese food one and many others), are the best!
You are such a smart and beautiful person that I think anything you do with passion will succeed.
So forget the bitchy and mean videos, because you are trendsetter, because you are Lily!

Tom Jones · October 3, 2016 at 9:18 pm

Why did you disable comments on it on YT?

Allie Richards · October 9, 2016 at 10:55 am

I now get excited before bedtime because I know I’m going to see my sweet bestie who helps me to sleep. That was not her. I don’t get the bitchy thing either; it’s upsetting, not relaxing.

I like Steve’s idea about reading. My ex used to read me fairy tales and I would nod off so fast. I think because I already knew the story so I could just hear the voice and not have to pay too much attention to the words. But I love everything else you do. Your voice is just perfect and I love your tapping. The Japanese snacks didn’t trigger my ASMR but I loved watching it anyway. You are just so fun and sweet. I really want to see more of Dobbie but that’s probably another channel. Keep doing you, you’re the best!

    Janesa · November 5, 2016 at 2:06 pm

    My preolbm was a wall until I read this, then I smashed it.

Steve Roberts · October 12, 2016 at 4:04 am

How about Lily the Librarian?!

    Bobbo · November 5, 2016 at 3:47 pm

    Always a good job right here. Keep rolling on thruogh.

avery · October 31, 2016 at 3:41 am

I honestly think it depends on the topic.. I don’t think it gives me asmr but can be relaxing

online payday loans with no credit check or faxing · January 6, 2019 at 3:31 am

May I ask you to clarify some things? Perhaps write an additional example? many thanks 🙂

yeezy boost 350 v2 · January 14, 2019 at 12:38 pm

Thanks so much for giving everyone a very splendid opportunity to read articles and blog posts from this site. It can be very sweet and also stuffed with a good time for me and my office peers to search the blog at least 3 times a week to see the new things you will have. Not to mention, I am also at all times contented with your brilliant principles you serve. Some 2 ideas on this page are without a doubt the simplest I’ve ever had.

ultra boost · January 14, 2019 at 6:40 pm

I must point out my appreciation for your kind-heartedness in support of individuals that must have guidance on this one concept. Your personal dedication to passing the message all over appeared to be definitely beneficial and have truly helped regular people much like me to reach their dreams. Your entire interesting report entails this much a person like me and a whole lot more to my fellow workers. Thank you; from all of us.

yeezy boost 700 · January 14, 2019 at 10:23 pm

My spouse and i have been really relieved that Chris could do his studies from your precious recommendations he made from your web page. It is now and again perplexing to just continually be making a gift of information and facts which many others may have been trying to sell. We fully understand we’ve got the website owner to appreciate for this. All of the illustrations you’ve made, the simple blog menu, the friendships your site help to foster – it’s many terrific, and it’s letting our son and the family do think that concept is interesting, which is exceptionally important. Many thanks for all!

kd 10 · January 15, 2019 at 6:31 am

I simply had to appreciate you once more. I’m not certain what I could possibly have gone through in the absence of these thoughts revealed by you over this problem. It actually was the frustrating circumstance in my circumstances, however , witnessing your skilled style you managed it forced me to jump with joy. I’m just happy for this assistance and even trust you really know what a great job you’re getting into educating men and women through the use of a site. More than likely you haven’t come across all of us.

tory burch handbags · January 15, 2019 at 4:41 pm

I just wanted to post a brief word to express gratitude to you for all of the marvelous tips you are posting on this website. My long internet look up has at the end been recognized with useful ideas to exchange with my classmates and friends. I ‘d tell you that we website visitors are definitely blessed to be in a great network with so many marvellous individuals with valuable things. I feel extremely privileged to have come across your entire website page and look forward to many more awesome minutes reading here. Thank you once more for all the details.

michael kors factory outlet · January 16, 2019 at 12:16 am

I truly wanted to develop a note in order to express gratitude to you for those superb solutions you are writing at this site. My considerable internet search has at the end of the day been rewarded with awesome content to talk about with my relatives. I ‘d point out that we readers are rather endowed to live in a useful network with very many perfect professionals with insightful points. I feel rather lucky to have discovered your web pages and look forward to so many more brilliant moments reading here. Thank you once again for a lot of things.

nike air max 270 · January 16, 2019 at 9:07 am

I would like to get across my affection for your kind-heartedness for visitors who need help on this idea. Your very own dedication to getting the message all through was rather advantageous and have helped workers much like me to attain their ambitions. This invaluable tutorial indicates a lot to me and far more to my colleagues. Regards; from each one of us.

yeezy boost 350 · January 16, 2019 at 7:44 pm

I and my buddies were actually studying the best information located on the blog then then I had a horrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the blog owner for those tips. These ladies were for this reason happy to see them and already have sincerely been tapping into these things. We appreciate you actually being really accommodating and then for deciding upon variety of high-quality ideas millions of individuals are really desirous to understand about. Our own sincere apologies for not expressing gratitude to earlier.

bape hoodie · January 17, 2019 at 3:28 am

I wanted to create you the bit of observation just to thank you so much yet again for those nice knowledge you’ve discussed on this website. It’s quite shockingly generous with people like you giving freely precisely what some people would have marketed as an ebook in order to make some dough on their own, particularly now that you might well have done it in the event you considered necessary. These advice likewise worked to become a fantastic way to be aware that other people have the same fervor really like mine to figure out a whole lot more regarding this problem. I’m sure there are several more fun periods in the future for individuals who read your blog post.

loans up to 500 with no credit check · January 17, 2019 at 7:45 am

Like to detail more concerning this subject? I know you may be unwilling to share some of the more controversial ideas, but I would certainly love reading them!

nike shox · January 17, 2019 at 12:39 pm

Thanks so much for providing individuals with an exceptionally brilliant opportunity to read in detail from this site. It is usually so excellent and also full of a great time for me personally and my office colleagues to search your site minimum three times in a week to read the newest things you will have. And indeed, I am certainly fulfilled considering the very good concepts you give. Certain two areas in this post are truly the best we’ve ever had.

yeezy boost · January 17, 2019 at 12:51 pm

I precisely wished to thank you so much yet again. I am not sure the things I could possibly have accomplished without the type of tips and hints shared by you over my concern. This has been the daunting circumstance in my position, nevertheless spending time with the skilled form you resolved the issue made me to cry for contentment. Extremely happier for this work and then pray you really know what a powerful job that you’re carrying out educating others via your site. I know that you have never encountered all of us.

off white · January 18, 2019 at 4:51 am

I needed to put you one bit of note to finally say thank you once again with the incredible secrets you have documented on this page. It has been certainly strangely open-handed of people like you to provide unreservedly all that a few people would have distributed as an e book to help make some profit for themselves, mostly given that you could possibly have done it if you ever considered necessary. The creative ideas as well acted like a easy way to recognize that the rest have similar dream just as my very own to know the truth much more in respect of this condition. I’m sure there are several more fun situations ahead for those who browse through your website.

Men HI Star Sneakers · January 18, 2019 at 12:33 pm

I precisely had to thank you so much once more. I do not know the things I would have carried out in the absence of the actual tips and hints shared by you relating to that area. It was before the terrifying setting in my position, however , witnessing the expert way you solved the issue made me to cry for delight. Extremely happier for the work and pray you find out what a powerful job you are undertaking teaching most people all through your site. I am sure you have never met any of us.

adidas ultra boost · January 18, 2019 at 1:39 pm

I precisely needed to thank you very much all over again. I am not sure the things I would have accomplished in the absence of these basics shown by you about such a situation. It truly was the difficult issue for me, but witnessing a specialized strategy you dealt with it took me to leap over happiness. I am happier for the assistance and hope that you are aware of a great job you are getting into teaching the rest by way of your web page. Probably you have never got to know any of us.

lebron 14 · January 18, 2019 at 9:55 pm

I intended to compose you this bit of note to be able to say thanks a lot the moment again for all the incredible concepts you’ve shared on this site. It has been quite particularly generous with people like you to supply extensively exactly what a lot of people would’ve made available as an electronic book in order to make some dough for their own end, and in particular considering that you could possibly have tried it if you ever considered necessary. The advice likewise worked to be a easy way to comprehend other individuals have the identical desire the same as mine to figure out a great deal more with respect to this issue. I am certain there are a lot more enjoyable sessions in the future for those who look into your site.

nike cortez · January 19, 2019 at 5:12 am

I wish to express my appreciation for your kind-heartedness in support of persons who really want guidance on your content. Your special dedication to passing the message all over became rather beneficial and have really encouraged those like me to attain their ambitions. Your invaluable help indicates a great deal to me and a whole lot more to my colleagues. Warm regards; from everyone of us.

nike huarache · January 19, 2019 at 3:14 pm

Needed to compose you a very little observation to finally give many thanks the moment again with your spectacular solutions you have contributed here. This is certainly incredibly open-handed of you to offer publicly all that a number of us could have offered as an e-book to make some cash for their own end, primarily since you might have tried it if you ever desired. These creative ideas in addition served as a easy way to be sure that most people have a similar dream the same as my very own to know the truth much more pertaining to this matter. I believe there are many more enjoyable situations in the future for many who scan your website.

What Is ASMR ? History And Facts - Lily Whispers ASMR · October 9, 2017 at 7:41 pm

[…] community on YouTube is growing tremendously. There are new trends from Rude ASMR Roleplays to ear-eating and everything in between! I’ve been lucky to witness its growth over the years […]

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.